What is the ONE secret to enjoy hard work?
Enjoy hard work? Here is a guest post from our friend Hema Unnoop,
I had a post about her before Hema’s Journey, a story of self-awareness.
Now after a break, she is back to tell us about the secret to enjoying hard work.
Hard work can be a joy, especially if we see good results; it will empower us
to move confidently forward toward our dream. Work seems not as hard if
we are ambitious and love what we do. And It needs a Vision, a Dream to start with.
“Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work. And the only way to do great work is to love what you do.” Steve Jobs
“Everyone has been made for some particular work, and the desire for that work has been put in every heart.”Rumi
Here is what Hema has to tell us. Welcome, Hema
The ONE secret to enjoying hard work
I can hear you telling me,
“You must be crazy. Is it possible to enjoy hard work?”
YES, IT IS!
We all want good things in life, but we aren’t ready to work hard for them. We aren’t ready to make the sacrifices to get what we want.
I remember having a love-hate relationship with hard work.
There were times when I would happily pour my heart and soul into assignments and projects. Other times I wouldn’t be bothered and let it slide.
However, in recent years, I have warmed up a lot more to the idea of hard work.
Did it happen overnight?
No!
I’ve pondered over this idea for a while and discovered why I enjoy working hard a lot more now than ever before.
Here’s the secret.
Learn to see the promise of the future
I hear you again…
”How can you see a promise? That’s not possible.”
I beg to differ.
Let me explain and teach you how to see the promise and allow it to help you enjoy working hard.
This is the secret top-paid motivational speakers, real estate agents, successful businesses; architects use to make big bucks in their respective fields. They could see what they were capable of. Worked hard to attain their goals and now help you see a brighter future for yourself. They help you see what could be instead of what already is.
Nowadays, it is believed 97% of people quit chasing their dreams because it involves a lot of hard work.
But I believe the main reason people quit these days is because they find it hard to see a promising future. It’s not hard work that scares people; it’s the lack of promises that deters them from paying the price.
Why would anyone pay the price if they cannot see the promise?
But surely we wouldn’t mind paying the price if we could have a clear view of tomorrow, next week, next month, or next year. Am I right?
If we were given the high assurance of how our lives were going to turn out, do you think we would hesitate to pay the price?
Of course not!
We hesitate ONLY when we are not capable of seeing what can be. We hesitate if the future is unclear.
It’s sad to see people toil day and night just to survive another day. No wonder they hate working hard and do it anyway.
What if you saw the promise of a bright future?
When my husband mentioned the idea of migrating to Australia in 2010, I was apprehensive at the start.
However, he was able to convince me by painting a clear picture of what was possible for us as a couple, as individuals, and what it meant for our future generations.
I have come to realize that was probably the key reason I agreed to give up my job, start from scratch, crack the books, and put myself through the paces.
Six years down the track, we are proud Australian citizens, own a business, starting a family, building our home, and have many more goals lined up for the near and distant future.
Wouldn’t you do the same if you were shown an extraordinary promise?
And wouldn’t you burn the midnight oil if you could see what was in store for you?
Wouldn’t you engage in the disciplines and thoughts if the promise was adequate?
Can you learn to see a promise and work hard?
Yes, you can. We all can.
It’s not always easy to see the possibilities that exist for us. We often have the habit of sabotaging ourselves. And we allow that little voice to stop us from going after our dreams.
We want quick fixes, shortcuts, and get-rich-quick schemes to make it big.
Word of caution: Avoid spending your money and time on seers or clairvoyants to help you see the promise of the future.
There are better and more practical ways to do so.
Here’re 6 ways to help you see the promise of the future.
- Surround yourself with people who believe in you and your capabilities. People who can see your strengths when you are unable to see them for yourself.
- Be around people who walk the talk. Be around those whose thoughts are nourishing, positive, and uplifting. Those who commit to their dreams.
- Find yourself a mentor or coach who can see beyond who you are, and where you are at present and help you uncover your hidden potential.
- Attend personal development seminars and workshops. These events can help ignite your passion and fuel your imagination.
- Avoid waiting for inspiration to strike. Go out and discover all that you can do. Find ways to put your strengths to work and then decide what works best for you.
- Ask yourself the following questions,
How would I like to be remembered when I’m gone?
Do I want to be taken as a good example or a horrible warning?
Over to you
Hard work can be enjoyable if you are willing to see the promise and potential in yourself, people, things, and ideas.
Have I motivated you enough to pay the price for a promising future?
Are you ready to dig deep and find what’s possible for you?
I would love to hear your thoughts.
Hello Erika,
Nice to meet Hema on your blog 🙂
I must confess, every time I do visit your blog, there is something which boost up my confidence.
Your content always contain something, which almost every human, who is about to loose his hope
would give him the reason to fight back.
Indeed there could be joy in the hard work we do. Main thing is that we need to enjoy the work which
we are doing. Regarding any field, if one is giving their 100% no doubt, the result they would be getting
would be much sweeter than any other thing.
Thanks for sharing such informative post among us.
Have a great week ahead.
Keep Writing 🙂
Shantanu sinha
Hi Shantanu ,
nice to see you here.
Hema is doing a wonderful job with her blog and it is right
if we have a vision and a dream a goal the hard work feels not
as hard ,especially if you see that you get closer to your dream.
Do what you love and love what you do .
Thank you for your visit here
Erika
Hello Shantanu,
Thank you for your comment.
I wholeheartedly thank Erika for giving me this opportunity.
I’ve enjoyed writing this post as working hard has always been a mystery to me until I discovered how to derive joy from it.
Glad this post helped boost your confidence.
Thank you
Hema
Hi Hema & Erika,
Yeah, you motivated me! Interesting personal story about your family’s move – and success. Seeing a bright future without understanding, and looking forward to the work necessary, isn’t a dream, but a nightmare as you pointed out in this post.
I also liked your list, especially #5. Thanks, Edward
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Hi Edward,
is Hema not a great example for all young people ?
She is doing a wonderful work in inspiring others.
She really follows her 6 steps .
Thank you for your comment
Erika
Hello Edward,
Humbled to know this post inspired you.
Over the years I have learned that whatever we set out to do in life, we can’t do so blindly following others or a path.
It’s crucial that we know for sure what we want out of life.
If it’s important we’ll find a way, if it’s not we’ll find an excuse.
Thank you for your comment Edward.
Hema
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Hi Erika and Hema 🙂
Really enjoyed reading! Thank you for sharing these awesome tips to enjoying hard work to get to that desired goal 🙂 Awesome post!
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Hi Joan ,
I am glad you liked Hema’s post and
enjoyed reading it . she is an inspiration.
Thank you
Erika
Hello Joan,
Thrilled to know you liked this post!
Thank you
Hema
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Hi Erika and Hema,
I enjoyed your personal story about your move. You had the foresight to go after your goals. That’s what keeps us motivated. It takes a lot of hard work to attain what we want and there are times we are working so hard for no monetary gain but rather a goal. When we have this in our hearts it does come. Just look at anyone who is successful in any field. They fought the fight. They kept at it and it never happened overnight.
-Donna
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Hi Donna
you are right nothing happen overnight
and everybody with a vision has to work
hard to reach the goal.Hema already did
good work and I are sure she will reach her
Dream and will go for the nest one.
Thank you for your comment
Erika
Hello Donna,
You’re spot on. Wishing for success to fall on our laps overnight is naive.
There’s always a price to pay for success. It takes bucket loads od zeal, determination and of course the will to burn the midnight oil.
The rewards from doing so is priceless.
Thank you for your comment.
Hema
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Hi Hema & Erika,
Thanks Erika for introducing us to Hema. As I read about your move to Australia, I’ve wondered at times what it would be like to pick up and move to a completely different country. It sounds so scary but yet exciting.
Happy that things have worked out for you and your growing family.
Hello Monna,
I’m honored to be here. You’re right. Moving to a whole new country is one daunting task…but I guess making life changing decisions doesn’t come easy.
I’m glad I made the move and in doing so I’m now able to make a difference in my life and that of others.
Thank you for your lovely comment.
Hema
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Hello Erika, so nice meet Hema here on your blog today! What an inspiring story, Just goes to show that you can do anything you put your mind to HUH>
Great share my friend
Thanks,
Chery :))
Hello Chery,
Glad to meet you too.
Our minds can be our best friend or our worst enemy. The choice is always ours.
Thank you for leaving me your comment.
Hema
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Hi Erika and Hema,
Lovely to hear Hema’s story, and how well it worked out for her. I’m so pleased it did.
That’s an interesting point – that we would work hard if we were guaranteed a successful outcome. Some of the longest hours I have worked were in my Mum and Dad’s family business, a seaside shop. We worked late, hour after hour, and the customers kept flooding in – because of excellent positioning near to the sea-front and the largest night-time attraction in the time.
Our success WAS guaranteed – “all” we had to do was stand there, selling to eager customers. And we loved it! As well as being the longest hours I have worked, they were the happiest times of my life. So from that experience I can say it’s very easy to stay motivated through successful times.
Joy – Blogging After Dark
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Hi Joy,
Thank you for sharing your experience. That’s inspiring.
I might just add that the assurance of a successful future is something we foresee for ourselves. Even though it’s not tangible we still make ourselves see the promise.
Wanting to succeed is about putting in the effort whether we feel motivated or not. But it’s easier when we believe in what could be instead of what is.
Thank you for your comment.
Hi Erika,
What an awesome post, Really enjoyed reading it!
Thanks for share.
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Hi Robin ,
I am glad you liked Hema’s guest post ,
she is inspiring .may all of you young people
reach your dream and have the vision to be able
to enjoy even hard work.
Thank you
Erika
Hi Erika
Great to see Hema on your blog
A great inspiring personal story.
Thanks for sharing!
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Hi Sonal,
I am glad you feel inspired by Hema’s story.
Thank you for reading and commenting
Erika
The only thing that certainly pays off is diligence. It is the simple and yet profound truth and you have nice articulated it in this post with your own personal life experience. .
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It is lovely to be introduced to you here. I absolutely love the reminder to think about how you want to be remembered when you are gone. Our legacy is our gift to all future generations.
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Hi Erika, and Hema
Very inspirational article.
I think all very successful people achieved their success by hard work. Very motivational story about moving to another country. Our ancestors
did the same thing and built their family’s success with very hard work. I liked ” They could see what they were capable of. Worked hard to attain
their goals and now see a brighter future for ourselves. They could see ahead instead of what already is.”. I also liked the reminder about how you
want to be remembered.
Hi Erika and Hema,
This is a great topic, and an important one for anybody trying to build a successful online business.
The most important thing, for me, is to understand that you’ll never accomplish anything by waiting to be inspired.
Success requires hard, steady work… getting things done, not anticipating that it will just happen.
Work hard, enjoy your work, love what you do. It all goes hand in hand, and you can’t do one effectively without also doing the others.
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Hi David ,
you are right waiting to be inspired does not bring us to our goal.
It needs action and hard work and a vision. we need to know what we want
and hard work can be pleasant.Hema did the right thing and did accomplish a lot.
I wish her all the best for her next steps.
Thank you for your comment
Erika
Hi Erika,
Nice to meet you Hema!
Beautiful post, I agree to be successful is a hard work and is always good to
make it pleasant as much as possible.
If you love what you do no matter how hard it is you will enjoy it 🙂
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Hi Emi ,
you are right if we love what we do and know what we want to accomplish,
hard work can be more pleasant.
Thank you for your comment
Erika
Hi Erika and Hema,
Pleasure to meet you Hema!
Wonderful insight. Working hard when you can’t see a vision or hope for a better future does seem futile. I believe in this and I have faith that when I work hard it will show others what to expect of me. This also will leave a legacy to my children to show them that hard work does pay off.
Thank you,
Lillian
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Hi Lillian ,
You do the right thing if you have a vision and the faith to get there,
hard work is what we have to do to get to our desired outcome.
Thank you for your comment ,all the best
Erika
Superb post !! I feel very hard to read this post at the starting, after completing the full post read, i feel its too easy from hard and my hard work. Just i hope too, everyone will get useful and they feel very simple from hard work. So, Hard work never fail, It will give us more gain in future sure…
Thanks for Sharing & Keep Sharing !!
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Hi Karthik ,
You are right is we work hard on our dream we will gain a good future.
We need a vision ,a dream to know what we want to accomplish.
Thank you
Erika
Hi Hema and Erika
Good to see you Hema in Erika’s blog. You shared an awesome insight and you are so right. If people could see their future; if people could see the bliss, they would pay the price and work hard. However, life has given us the ability to write our future. Our dreams don’t make themselves come true, we do. So it will be difficult to see a promise.
Your tips are spot on. By surrounding ourselves with the right people, getting a coach, and being a fan of personal development, one can work hard to suceed.
Thanks Erika for inviting Hema to share her insight. Have a wonderful week. Take Care
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Hi Ikechi ,
you are right if we have a vision and want to make a dream come true we are ready to pay the price and work hard .
Without a vision, it is a struggle.
And Hema is right with her tips ,we need the right people around us and stay away from discouraging people .
Thank you for your comment ,have a great weekend
Erika
Hey Hema/Erika,
Great seeing this guest post. I could not agree with you more. When we have ideas the picture really does need to be painted in our mind. That example of how you husband presented moving to Australia really got me. I can see how hard you both have work. What an exciting couple. I know for myself I get confused when there is no vision in my head. I wait for it to appear.
Separating hard work and the vision make so much sense. I can understand why people would not be afraid of hard work but what would be the point if they could not see how it could work for them in the future.
Love those six points you share. Personal development is a must now if we want to move into the future. I always say have a back up plan for the days when we are not motivated or feeling negative or overwhelmed. As humans we know for certain these days will appear, all we have to do is know what steps we will take when they arrive. Great inspiring post.
Rachel.
Hi Rachel
you are right we need to have a vision for our life and go step by step after our dream.
The way will unfold for us . If we have a vision for our life and work hard it is worth it .
Thank you for your comment ,I think Hema will answer you as well
Erika
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Hi Hema and Erika,
I really love this post because it is true, people are not afraid of hard work but the future not being promising. Many times we cannot see our full potential only because we are not surrounded by the right people. It takes lots of courage to pursue dreams. The word “dream” itself points out a situation that can be utopia, therefore it may not be accomplished in the future no matter how much hard work we put into.
The sad part here is that we may even need to leave people behind so as to do what we desire the most. Hard work not even to achieve the goal but on a personal level as well. If that means that relationship or family members have to be left behind because they don’t understand the importance of our dream, yes then there is not point of having them in our lives. So instead of those people, we can find new people with the right guidance.
Thank you for this wonderful post. Have a beautiful day!
Zaria
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Hi Zaria,
the same happen to this comment of yours ,I found it in the spam.
Good, I did 🙂
You are right is we are not surrounded with the right people it
is difficult especially if we do not know our true self. I think
if we are confident and have faith it is easier even with people
who hold back . Best is not to discuss and follow the heart and
if you aware of it ,the inner voice ,the intuition.
Best is to stay as much as possible away from these people ,even
family members.In my experience, we always attract the right people,
as in Hema’s story this man who talked to her,good if we realize the
message and act on it.
Thank you for your comment ,I did visit you site it is very nice .
We need more of this 🙂
Erika