Β Can you define your Dream?
Did you ever think about it? What do you really want? You may know this from personal experience often; you think to know exactly what you want to accomplish in your life.
The problem is that, basically, you just have an idea of what you do not want in life. For example, you want to have no debt, no disputes in the family or partnership, no problems you can not solve, no boring job, and good health.
Β Basically, we just have an idea of what we do not want in life.
We may manageΒ to have no debt – but this also may mean that we do not have a lot of money to spend.
Although we have no real dispute, our situation may not be harmonious. We may not have any large and complex problems, but a lot of small ones. Also, our job may never be boring, but often very stressful, from today’s perspective.
We try to eat healthy food and do exercise. But still, we only reached a goal.
But are we happy? No, often quite the contrary. It can feel like we are no more than a sheet that can be blown away by a small gust of wind.
Why is this so? Because we do not know what we really want. We are not really aware that, in truth, we have the desire to live a life in harmony, prosperity, health, and love. And in truth, we as human beings are looking for exactly these things.
The knowledge alone that you can actually look for love, harmony, prosperity, and health and how to get it is not enough.
To succeed, you need to know exactly in which direction you want to go. Most people go through life without a real plan.
One day follows another; often, it is only about making somehow ends meet. This is terribly bad because this must not be.
But here’s the whole point. If you do not know what you really want and what exactly your life should look like, then you do not get anything out of life that you might want, or worse, others will decide for you. Do you really want that?
I can not emphasize this enough: It’s always the perfect time to change something in life. And if you think it is too late or you’re stuck too deep in your situation, you can at least improve it step by step.
Maybe you do not succeed immediately, but you can at least begin.
What do you really want in your life?
There are questions that need to be answered. What is life about for you? Β What about wealth? How much do you need to be happy?
Or if you now had a huge sum of money available, what would you do with it? What about your health?
Make up your mind and think about it.
Wallace Wattles: “You will never do great things in the external world until you think great things in the internal world”- in The Science of Being Great
What do you really want? What makes you feel more alive? And what is your desire? What would you like to be, create and give?
A dream is not a real dream if you know exactly how to get there. Therefore, a dream makes you stretch and grow and brings you out of your comfort zone.
A dream sets you on fire and makes you excited.
Can you remember the dreams you had as a child and how you really felt like it is real in your imagination?
Later, we were told not to do this and get real in school or at home. But this is what we need to do to build our dream. Now we have to learn this again.
We all are able to do great things. It is said: If we can see it in our mind, we can hold it in our hands.
It is necessary to make the right decisions in life. Decisions that sometimes do not meet all the standards and conventions.
Dreams are often not understandable to people around you, and they may discourage you. Don’t let them.
Only for those who are willing to take unusual steps can extraordinary results be expected!
Stand up for yourself and think about what you really want – define your dream.
Do you have a dream?
Think of Do you know what you really want?
Do you remember a dream you had as a child?
Please leave a comment.
Thank you
Hi Erika,
You always leave me thinking and that’s a great thing! Am I happy? Yes!
I focus on what I want very strongly through visualizations, lists, and of course taking action. Right now I’m living my dream, but that will change because at each level we fulfill our dreams, there comes another one. It is part of the growing process.
Recently I took stock of what I have achieved, where I am now and then had to figure out what next? I just cannot be stagnant. As long as I have my wits about me, I love growing and that is all from creating our own dream.
Be Blessed,
-Donna
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Hi Donna ,
good you are happy π
We always go for the next dream ,this is how it needs to be.
We are not meant to be stagnant,we live in a universe which wants us to
grow and naturally pulls us upwards. Good if we feel this and follow
our new dreams. What’s next?
Blessings to you
Thank you
Erika
Hello Erika, Great questions here today and Yes i have read Wallace Wattles book not once, not twice but many many times! The Science of Being Great! Wow it is all about our inner being HUH? I have learned more from this book then I have from any other source. Great Share,, Thanks Chery :))
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Hi Chery ,now I got to the first one π
You are right ,the books of Wallace Wattles are very good and we can learn a lot from him .
We can read them after time again and still find something to learn .
Thank you ,
I am happy you told me to look for your comments π
Have a great weekend
Erika <3
Hey Erika, thanks for sharing and reminding. Yes, I have a dream and it’s more clear than ever now that I can clearly see how to get there!!
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Hi Andrea,
I am happy that you are going in the direction of your dream
and know how to get there. Keep going confidently.
All the best for you:)
Wishing you well
Erika
Hello Erika, I know I read and commented on this before, not sure what happened but it was such an Awesome Post that is was worth reading again.. I guess the same goes for commenting as well.. This really got me to a thinking about what I truly want.. Thanks for sharing.. Chery :))
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Hi Chery ,
you are right you did ,
will answer you ,to the one comment before ,
you should really check ,why this happen with the comments .
Now that I know about ,will check the spam more often ,did not think of this,that there can be “No spam “as well π
Thank you π
Hi Erika,
I strongly agree with you on dream definition, dream is very complected part of life and every person want to get and live his dreams into real life..but it’s not possible. by the way thanks for your awesome work..
Regards
Mohd Arif
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Hi Mohd Arif ,
I just checked my spam and found your comment ,I hope you are not a spam ?
It does not look like π
But I have to tell you it is possible to get the dream in your life .I know you are not the only one who thinks this .
I know many of my Indian friends did not believe it .
But it is possible ,you only have to think differently and things will change .
Apaka din sobh ho π
Your blog Erika, is turning into something beautiful and memorable… it comes from the heart and I love that. All the experiences you’ve had, and the training you have done, is showing strong…. such good thoughts and a reminder of staying true to self …
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Hi Lesly ,
I am happy you like it.
The training I took most because of learning the right words.
Mary has the words, which I would like to learn, she is amazing
and is able to speak in a beautiful way.
I hope to learn better to say what I would like to express.
Always something to learn.
Thank you, Lesly
Erika
Thanks for sharing Erica, this dream thing is the most important part to figure out. When you know your dream you can start living life like you wish to be in your dream, as your subconscious does not know the difference. Finding people who won’t discourage you or not telling the ones’ you know will helps. Keep on being true to yourself.
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Hi Lawrence,
you are right finding people who do believe in
dreams is not easy and better not to talk to anybody
about it, if they discourage you. This may be a difficulty
Dreamers face and often they fail because of this.
It needs to keep an uplifting energy.
Thank you
Erika
Hi Erika, I agree…if you don’t decide someone will decide for you. I think sometimes we questions ourselves (which is good) but to the point of talking ourselves out of those things that were always right there in front of us. Is this meant for me? No, it can’t be. But then you always keep coming back to it for some reason. I like the quote about doing great things in the internal world. Great post.
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Hi Erika,
You are getting so good at writing and asking probing questions …questions that make you think … love it …
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Hi Lesly ,
i am grateful you tell me I am getting better π
Takes me long but, I want it to be good.
I am happy you love it .
Thank you
Erika
Hi Erika,
When our children were young and I was homeschooling all of them, I knew exactly what I wanted and where I wanted to go. Now that they’re all grown up except our youngest one, I’ve spent some time thinking about where I go from here. My dream… my vision… my calling is something I knew from the time I was a young teen. It’s much clearer now, and I am working toward it. π
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Hi Willena ,
I am happy to hear this if it is clearer
it is good and you can follow .
All the best for you ,keep going toward it .
Erika
I love reading your blog, it gives me an uplifted energy.
Am I happy? I am. I have my dreams for my future and I am willing to take unusual steps, to get extraordinary results.
Wonderful post!
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Hi Kathryn ,
good for you ,to have your dreams ,
use your intuition and you will have
the help to get there.
I am happy the blog does bring you uplifting energy π
Thank you
Erika
Hello Erika am happy about to hear this my name is Nyowe joof from the Gambia in west Afr
well i a so happy to see this as Future is more important special in Gambia here is too hard for many peoples special the Orphans are suffering here without no limitation if is me i will like to help help poor needy in future as God always reward more than what peoples give out i will pray that May all dreams come true and lest always think better thinking so that God can bring things come true… i am also poor but i always keep faith every morning when i wake up i said thank you God for the life you have give me today and i thank God that my eyes are seen i can talk and i can walk.. that the first and more important thing in life.. when you have long life many thing can come in that not right….?.. am so happy to see i always keep on touching reading your comments…. more love from Nyowe joof Erika
Thank you ,Nyowe Joof
Nyowe Joof ,
I really sorry ,but I do not have time to sent you emails .
but you are welcome to read the posts here .
Erika
you are very welcome Erika Mohssen.. i will be glad if you can send me a mail in my E-mail DogfatherBojang@hotmail.com.. so that we can keep touching send mails to each other and share Ideas as i want you to tell me more about life and how to be faithful because i always looking for poeples that can always give me ideas thank you i will like to hear from you soon as possible and any one who can send me mail and we give ideas you are all welcome…… π