How to feel good about yourself
Do you love and accept yourself? If not, this is going to create a lot of problems for you.
All your relationships will suffer, and the work you are doing as well.
Nobody will be able to live with you if you can not be happy with yourself.
Many have difficulty with self-love, self-acceptance, and self-consciousness.
Some people think it’s not desirable, maybe because they confuse it with egoism or self-centeredness.
Or because they were told that it was anti-social or improper.
“To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance.” – Oscar Wilde
What is self-love
A part of self-love is self-acceptance. This starts with our upbringing, our own appearance, personal characteristics, talents, and inclinations, as well as our weaknesses. But also to accept our mistakes and failures and forgive ourselves.
How to feel good about yourself
Look at these tips; they will help you to live life and feel good about yourself.
Whenever you do not feel good about yourself, look at the why.
Why is it I do not feel good? Know you deserve all good and happiness in your life.
Maybe you do affirmations and see what disturbs you.
Make a list of good things you do every day, and maybe make a little notebook for this.
If you see how many beautiful and good things you do, slowly, you will feel much
better about yourself, even when it is first difficult for you.
How can you feel bad about yourself if you do a lot of good?
Self-talk
Our inner dialogue has the biggest influence on self-love, self-esteem, and self-confidence. The words with which we think about ourselves and internally talk to ourselves are powerful.
They influence our feelings and our actions. We can communicate in a loving and supportive or in a small making and devastating way with us. Changing the inner monologue for the better needs attention, practice, and patience.
It is not good to think bad about yourself; it is not healthy, don’t do this.
Do not have negative self-talk, like “I am stupid “or “I do not look good”; change it may be first to I will learn this”, I am going to change my look. ”
We are often in our own way when it comes to our happiness and success.
How many chances and opportunities are wasted just because we think badly
about ourselves and our abilities? We experience much suffering because
we are more an enemy than a friend.
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Be with People that make you feel good.
Be with people who like and value what you do, make you happy, and appreciate you.
Often family, relatives, and friends criticize, with no bad intention, but it feels
uncomfortable, and if you have a bad day, it will make you feel down.
Go back to your notebook and look at the wonderful side of you.
If you do feel bad after meeting someone, try to avoid seeing them often.
Do not spend much time with people like this.
Invest in yourself
Start to learn something new, something you like to do, and accomplish something
which makes you proud. Join a group of supportive people who help you to feel
loved and appreciated.
Get a new outfit for yourself or change your look? What about a new hairstyle?
You will find everything is not that bad, and you feel proud of yourself.
There are surely many things you can find and accomplish if you think about it.
What would you love to do? If you do something you really love,
you will be good at it.
We have to live all day with ourselves, every day, all the time we are awake.
We have to be happy and appreciate being in the company with ourselves.
If we are friendly with ourselves, we encourage and comfort ourselves.
We would forgive our faults and weaknesses.
If we are friends with ourselves, we are never alone.
Why Investments In Your Well-being Bring The Best Interest
Abraham Lincoln said: “When I lay down the reins of power one day and if I have lost all friends,
then at least I’ll still have a friend, and who lives deep inside me.”
It is important to learn how to feel good about yourself
Do you love and accept yourself?
If you have difficulty with this, I hope this information will help you.
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Hi Erika,
I didn’t accept myself in the past, but once I did, there was no stopping me! I love the tips you have given because just changing up my hair style or purchasing a new sweater can lift my spirits.
I do feel good about myself because I have conquered many things from the past. And now, moving on, still creating, still feeling great about my business and my lifestyle. But when I have those “down days” I do a little something for myself and it makes me feel terrific!
-Donna
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Hi Donna,
yes, we can see you are yourself and authentic.
If we feel good about ourselves all other things
get easier. I am happy to see what you do and this
shows you love yourself and make your life like you
love it. Great if you can make “down days” to”happy days”
with doing something good for yourself,this is how it should be.
To your happiness 🙂
Erika
I agree this is a very powerful post because its surprising how many people do not love or accept themselves and continually have negative chatter in their head.
When you do accept yourself it’s also great to not really care about what others think and you just be yourself.
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Hi Jenni,
yes, I like this being ourselves.
But somebody who does not love and accept him/herself,
often does not dare to be authentic and thinks they have to be
like others want them. We have to love and accept ourselves
to be able to be like we really are.
Thank you
Erika
Hi Erika,
Learning to love yourself can be a difficult path but so worth it. When you love yourself , self-respect oozes from you and you hold yourself to a higher standard. I am much happier with myself these days.. Congratulations on your wonderful ebook .. so happy and proud of your accomplishments .. 🙂
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Thank you ,Lesly
I am happy too about the book and hope I get the other one finished as well.
Sometimes its not working like I want and other things come in between.
Good to hear you are happier with yourself and you should be, look
at all your accomplishments, I think you are amazing.
Happy to have such an awesome friend like you
Thank you
Erika
Hi Erika,
Congratulations on your book! Very cool, when I was reading it I was getting to know you and it felt wonderful.
Loving myself was hard for me, there was a time that I felt not good enough
I guess is something that build up from back when I was a little kid…
The thing is you don’t have to prove anything to anyone.
It’s a beautiful to feel good about yourself … you feel free.
Thank you for great post,
Have a fantastic day!
Emi
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Hi Emi ,
Thank you ,I am happy if you like the book 🙂
I think we all had times when we did nor feel good about ourselves ,
this has to do with our upbringing, but we can release this,
many things we are taught are not true. Everyone is unique and
is here for a reason and if we find our passion we will do
good and feel good and it is freeing.
I am happy that you feel good about yourself 🙂
Thank you,Emi
Erika