Do you allow negative people to bring you into fear vibes?
Here is another inspiring post of our Friend Ryan Biddulph.
He is right, do not allow anybody into your life who drains your energy and good vibes.
In our time, many people do not even realize that they are only blaming and complaining and expect to have a good life. Ryan tells here why this does not work. If you want a pleasant life and have a dream, every negative thought and feeling throws you back, and you will never get to fulfill your dream.
Stay away from negative people! Comparison competition, blame, and judgment brings you out of your good vibes, and fear comes up. Be aware that fear rules the world while living in the present, gratitude, and generosity keeps you in love. Good vibes attract the right people and make your life pleasant, no matter where you are.
Never allow them in
You know exactly who I mean.
Never allow those folks in. The negative nellies. People who doubt themselves and who doubt you. Also, people who live 100% confined to the prison of logic. As well as people who worry about 5 years down the road and people stuck in Survival Mode. People who tell you all that is impossible and never, what is possible. People who see people living their dreams as being lucky.
Never allow these people into your life or into your mind. I walk away from such folks the moment chats turn down fear-filled roads. What if someone asks me my plans for my blog 5 years down the road? Hell; I do not know what 5 MINUTES down the road holds for me. How in the heck could I actually plan for 5 YEARS down the road if I do not know what will happen 5 seconds down the road?
I have a vision. But I live in the moment. Having a vision is a clear factor allowing me to live in the moment. I do not suggest everybody who asks you about a 5-year plan is fear-filled because having a vision keeps your head out of the clouds and out from being buried in the ground. But most folks who are hellbent on what may happen 5 years down the road vibe from fear predominantly because the split second you become heavily focused on the future, you leave the holy moment, and its loving, abundant vibe.
The split second you leave love and presence, you move toward fear and time. So….move away from people who attempt to move you out of love and now toward fear and future….or fear and past.
Let go anybody who does not emit a loving, compassionate, uplifting vibe.
Surround yourself with generous, loving, abundant human beings. Allow this crowd in routinely. Hobnob with these folks. Co-create with these folks. Go to where you are loved. Give most of your attention and energy to folks who love you and show you, love.
Dole out love to your customers, clients, fans and loyal buddies. Be generous with generosity because where your attention and energy goes, grows. Why do you think I write posts for Erika? She is a generous, dear friend who shares my content, who inspires me and who provides high energy content whenever she pops up in my Facebook feed.
Where your attention goes, energy flows
I never ever ever ever give more than a few seconds of energy to someone vibing super duper low. I respect how humans experience a wide range of emotions. But I also know; where your attention and energy goes, grows.
This is a point I stressed in my law of attraction eBook for beginners; being hyper-aware of how you vibe helps you change course more easily. Being unaware of how you vibe ensures you get smacked around on a sea of circumstance, being blindsided by situations in your ignorance, versus manually and deliberately changing your vibe to set a different course toward living your dream life.
Never allow negative nellies into your mind or into your experience because doing so instantly pulls your vibe lower into fear, scarcity, and poverty, allowing each energy to grow in your life experience. Never allow skeptics into your camp. Skeptics vibe fear, doubt, and closed-mindedness, priding themselves on their dastardly delusions, wearing their foolish, arrogant ways like a prideful badge of honor. But as the sages say, twice your pride and your fall will be doubled too. OK; Count Dookoo of Star Wars fame uttered the prior quote.
Never let fear-vibing folks into your energy field.
Surround yourself with loving, generous, compassionate people to take on their qualities and to move toward your dreams.
About the Author
Ryan Biddulph inspires with his 100 plus eBooks, courses, paperbacks, audiobooks and blog at Blogging From Paradise.
Take advantage of Ryan’s experience. He had up and downs in life and did overcome fear and lives in the present. Reading his books will help you to get into the right vibes.
Thank you, Ryan, for this awesome inspiring post 🙂
Read also Why Is Meeting With Like-Minded People So Powerful?
and How To Deal With Toxic People And Get Rid Of Them
Are you aware that negative people can hold you back from having a successful and pleasant life?
What is your experience with negative vibes?
Hey Erika Mam and Ryan Biddulph ,
Great and Inspiring post. I really like your post as this post really me a lot. It is absolutely true that we should never allow negative people and negative vibes into our life. As people with negative mindset causes problem and negative feeling hold us back from achieving our goal in life. Negative feeling also reduces our confidence level upto some limit and make us demoralize and create difficulty in fulfilling our dream. Avoiding and stay away from negative people and negative folks is really a good idea. Surround ourself with loving, generous, positive folks and abundant human beings is really a good decision and will helps a lot.
Truly inspirational post and thanks for sharing.
The reason for this post is to inspire and encourage people really to avoid people with a negative mindset.
It is not always easy, but with awareness, everyone can find ways to avoid to be influenced by them.
You are right negative feelings reduce our confidence to move on in direction of what we want.
I hope Ryan’s post can help you with this. Keep your circle positive.
Thank you for your comment
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I am glad you like the article.
Ryan & Erika,
Let’s take it this way – negativity kills. It never lets us get into action. Mental strength is more critical for anything we aim to do. Neatly explained.
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You are right, Jessica, negativity can kill, literally.
If we surround ourselves with positive people that uplift us, we get ambitious to take action.
So let’s stay away from toxic people.
Ryan did explain the “why” excellent.
Thank you for your comment
Hey Erika and Ryan.
I have been trying to comment on this post for the last 15 minutes. But do not know what to comment on. The phrases like “Good post”, “Motivational Posts” are a cliche when I am an admirer of your work. So I will be sharing my personal thoughts on this.
You guys know me, I have been blogging for the last 4 months and whenever I need to share anything with you guys, I share it. You guys never let me feel that you are blogging for a long time and I am just a novice. It was very easy to get along with you. I do not have words to thank you.
I was feeling low and then I saw this masterpiece. And you know what? A complete 360-degree turnaround. I just wish that I will be able to write this kinda stuffs in the future.
You are right sometimes we do not find the right words, it’s with me the same as you know I am always searching for the right words.
But you are on the right path and I like your posts, we are getting better over time 🙂 I am happy that you had a turnaround, this is what this post wants to do. We are all lifelong learners, but Ryan got the right words out of his experience.
Thank you for your comment that also motivates us.
thank you so much for this good article ,i clearly understood about Never allow negative people, negative vibes into your life
I am glad you understood and hope you can keep away from negativity.
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Hey Ryan & Erika,
In my opinion – If you consider yourself to be a positive person and want to live your best life, always try to surrounded with positive people.
Dealing with negativity can be quite a downer. Negative people who wallow in their problems and fail to focus on solutions are hard to deal with.
Changing our mindsets can transform our attitudes. Slightly altering your perception can also help you imagine what the other person might be experiencing.
Eventually, thanks for your wonderful thoughts.
With best wishes,
You are right dealing with negative people can make trouble it is difficult to stay positive.
It is not always possible to change the mind easily in this situation, sometimes it is best to walk away for a while.
Thank you for your comment
I am the new reader on your blog as I landed on your blog for the first time. I know this can be tough to deal with negative people. All we can do to stay away or make them feel positive. Your post is really giving me hope to fight until succeed.
Look forward to learn more from your blog.
Thanks for helping!
Negative people make life difficult and drain our energy which we could use for better.
It is better to stay away from them 🙂
Stay in good energy 🙂
Thanks for a great post. We can control negative vibes by little effort, we just have to avoid negative people in life, and always try to live in present because most of the negative thoughts drive from past and future. Thanks again!
right most people are to control negative vibes. But there are also some who get overwhelmed by negativity.
It is true best is to stay away from negative people and live in the present.
To keeping our positive vibes 🙂
Hi Erika and Ryan,
Ryan you are spot on. Negative vibes from others certainly do effect us and our vibrations. I call it toxic personalities. When I meet someone like this I do not continue a relationship. I stay far back lol.
There is a lot of negativity out there, but I like to understand where it comes from and I do. Each person has a different reason, but the vibe is the same…negative. I’m pretty lucky because I’ve done a lot of work in the past to block these people out. The only energy I allow is positive vibes. It sure works well when you cast out the negative people around you and pay no attention to the new ones trying to get in. I like to think of it as “It’s not my monkey…not my circus” and leave the drama alone.
Hi Donna 🙂
I like “It’s not my monkey…not my circus” 🙂 You are right we do not need negative vibes in our life, there is already enough around us.
Most of these people make their own life a misery, but if there is nothing we can do about it, it is better to stay away and let go.
Thank you for your thoughts and comment. Let’s keep out good vibes 🙂
It’s almost impossible to remove negative people in our family, friends or colleagues but you’re we can avoid them so that their negative energy can’t spoil our mood anymore.
You are right, Noor
We can not remove all of them but we can take care of how we respond.
Thank you for your comment
Great article! Thanks for sharing your thoughts!
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